My next million dollar idea: reluctant exercise videos with people who aren’t perky.
"Just five more… I know, I kind of want to die right now too, but let’s just power through it."
"Okay, new yoga pose. It’s going to ache like a bastard until your hamstrings release, I’m not gonna lie."
"Stretch a little deeper… it’s okay to yell ‘fuck’ at this point, I won’t tell anyone."yes
sadmasturbation replied to your post “My sister wants me to join her in visiting my mother tomorrow. Every…”
Just say no. You have to be selfish in times like these. They can’t wrap the wounds it can reopen, only you can so it’s your responsibility. They need to respect your health.
I think you’re right. They don’t respect my health, but I need to respect myself. I’m planning on saying no, we’ll see if I can get away with it. Thank you for understanding me. <3
P.S. I miss you dearly… :’(
endearingtides replied to your post “My sister wants me to join her in visiting my mother tomorrow. Every…”
you could always say you have plans so you can’t stay long and drive separately (or have someone pick you up) if you still don’t want to be around everyone
The problem is she’s very easy to anger and takes offense to leaving early. And around Christmas last year she would only see us if she was the one to pick us up and drive us to her apartment. (She gets a kick from being controlling) I will keep this in mind in case I’m forced to go, but I think I’ll try to say no first. Thanks for the advice! :)
thelatestkate replied to your post “My sister wants me to join her in visiting my mother tomorrow. Every…”
If it’s only to please others, and it’s bad for you, I’d say DON’T DO IT. They may be mad, but they’ll get over it. Your health is more important.
I am thinking I will say no. You’re right that they’ll get over it. I always forget to put my own health first because I want everyone else to be happy. Thanks for the encouragement. :) <3